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How can YOU ENJOY your LIFE?

August 15, 2017

Ready for the answer? CHANGE YOUR POINT OF VIEW! It's simple, but can be difficult for many! For once you get the answer in the beginning, instead of at the end but Let me explain. . .

 

If you have placed second in a writing contest, will you jump for joy and push for better results the next time or will you be discouraged and find an excuse not to join again?

In life, you are always filled with choices. You may opt to have a pessimists’ view and live a self-defeated life or you may decide to take the optimists’ route and take a challenging and fulfilling life.

 

So why nurture an optimistic point of view?

Well, optimism has been linked to positive mood and good morale; to academic, athletic, military, occupational and political success; to popularity; to good health and even to long life and freedom from trauma (Sometimes called Drama).

 

On the other hand, the rates of depression and pessimism have never been higher.

It affects middle-aged adults the same way it hits younger people. The mean age of onset has gone from 30 to 15. It is no longer a middle-aged housewife’s disorder but also a teen-ager’s disorder as well.

 

 

Here is how optimists are in action and researches that back up why it really pays to be an optimist:

 

Optimists expect the best, even when faced with the worst.

The defining characteristic of pessimists is that they tend to believe bad events, which will last a long time and undermine everything they do, are their own fault.

The truth is optimists are confronted with the same hard knocks of this world. What differs is the way they explain their misfortune---its the opposite way. They tend to believe defeat is just a temporary setback, that its causes are confined to this one case.

 

Optimists tend to focus on and plan for the 'problem' at hand. They use 'positive reinterpretation, in other words, they most likely reinterpret a negative experience in a way that helps them learn and grow. Such people are unfazed by bad situations, they perceive it is a challenge and try harder.

 

They won”t say things will never get better, If I failed once, it will happen again and If I experience misfortune in one part of my life, then it will happen in my whole life. If this is you, get this kind of self talk out of your life as soon as possible! Remember, like I always say. .. "Be careful what YOU tell YOU, because YOU believe EVERYTHING that YOU tell YOURSELF!

 

Positive expectancies of optimists also predict better responses during transitions to new environments, sudden tragedies and unlikely turn of events. If they fall, they will stand up. They see opportunities instead of obstacles.

 

People respond positively to optimists

Optimists are proactive and less dependent on others for their happiness. They find no need to control or manipulate people. They usually draw people towards them. Their optimistic view of the world can be contagious and influence those they are with.

 

Optimism seems a socially desirable trait in all communities. Those who share optimism are generally accepted while those who spread gloom, panic and hysteria are treated unfavorably.

In life, these people often win elections; get voted most congenial and sought for advice.

When the going gets tough, optimists get tougher!

 

Optimists typically maintain higher levels of subjective well being during times of stress than do people who are less optimistic. In contrast, pessimists are likely to react to stressful events by denying that they exist or by avoiding dealing with problems. Pessimists are more likely to quit trying when difficulties arise.

 

They persevere. They just don’t give up easily, they are also known for their patience. Inching their way a step closer to that goal or elusive dream.

Optimists are healthier and live longer.

 

Medical research has justified that simple pleasures and a positive outlook can cause a measurable increase in the body's ability to fight disease.

 

Optimists health is unusually good. They age well, much freer than most people from the usual physical ills of middle age. And they get to outlive those prone to negative thoughts.

So why not be an optimist today? Think positively towards a more fulfilled life.

Why not look forward to success in all your endeavors? Why not be resilient? Like everybody else you are bound to hit lows sometimes but don’t just stay there.

 

Carry yourself out of the mud and improve your chances of getting back on the right track. And why not inspire others to remove their dark-colored glasses and see life in the bright side?

Just a thought!

 

-Koby Dumas,

 

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